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de Bernd 2025-12-03 09:18:04 No. 27645
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Is it okay to comment on a female colleague's earrings and tell her they look nice on her (without seeming like a weirdo and like you're attracted to her)?
au Bernd 2025-12-03 09:26:04 No. 27646
No because ear rings are ugly.
pl Bernd 2025-12-03 09:26:52 No. 27647
Yeah but you have to do it in a way that's purely about the fashion and not about her body. Do it like you see women do it, something like >oh I like the design of those earrings, it reminds me of something something
de Bernd 2025-12-03 09:29:07 No. 27648
>Hey, nice earrings or >I like your earrings, they look cool/nice/interesting SO HARD
de Bernd 2025-12-03 09:32:04 No. 27650
>>27648 It's not common for people to compliment each other's jewelry and clothing in my office (I'm also the only man there), so it might seem weird.
no Bernd 2025-12-03 09:42:04 No. 27652
That's rape. So do it!
il Bernd 2025-12-03 10:23:18 No. 27656
No, in two sexual harassment classes I had at work they told us we cannot comment on women looks or clothes.
de Bernd 2025-12-03 11:11:56 No. 27661
>>27656 Thanks, that helps. I commented on her teeth though once, guess I’m cooked
de Bernd 2025-12-03 11:59:04 No. 27662
>>27650 I think his point was that you have to complement the earrings themselves and not how she looks or how they look on her. This way the complement is separated from her as a person and can harder be confused with you hitting on her.
de Bernd 2025-12-03 12:13:02 No. 27663
>>27662 Got it, thanks.
ca Bernd 2025-12-03 14:41:10 No. 27723
You have to not want anything from her, not expect anything from her, and just leave it as a casual comment. >"I like your earrings!" >"Thanks!" That's it.
de Bernd 2025-12-03 14:45:30 No. 27728
>Oh, you got new earrings? They suit you well/look great with your hairstyle.
by Bernd 2025-12-03 15:51:58 No. 27753
>>27723 that's how robots imagine human interaction
de Bernd 2025-12-03 15:53:43 No. 27755
>>27723 >>27728 Is it possible to do that retroactively?
de Bernd 2025-12-03 15:59:58 No. 27763
Dudes rarely complement a girl's jewelry. You might seem kinda gay. It's kinda close to saying "I like your nails".
by Bernd 2025-12-03 16:28:06 No. 27809
>>27763 >It's kinda close to saying "I like your nails". ultimate gayness is complementing women's shoes but in reverse it's different: women pay lots of attention to men's shoes, so invest in a pair if you want to get laid.
pl Bernd 2025-12-03 16:48:04 No. 27815
>>27809 black guys know how to do it